Breaking Stigmas: Edward’s Story of Resilience and Hope

At The Landing MN, one of the most common questions we hear is, “Why don’t they just get a job?” This question is often rooted in misunderstanding, shaped by stereotypes, and limited by a lack of personal connection to those directly impacted by homelessness. That’s why we are incredibly grateful when individuals like Edward feel safe enough to share their stories—stories that remind us that homelessness is not a character flaw, but a complex, deeply human experience.

The Day Everything Changed

Edward remembers the exact day his life took a turn: November 1, 2024. After attending college in Boston, he was ready to begin a new chapter and move to the Midwest to live with his boyfriend. But when he arrived at the Minneapolis airport on October 31, his partner never showed up. With nowhere to go, Edward spent that first night sleeping in the airport.

Determined to move forward, he traveled to Rochester where he had arranged for an apartment. But upon arrival, the landlord told him it was no longer available. Alone and without housing, Edward sought refuge wherever he could—eventually spending time in the Mayo Clinic subway system to regroup.

A New Connection

It was there he met Phil, who quickly became a friend and a source of support. With Phil’s help, Edward began staying at the Warming Center and accessing services at The Landing MN. But homelessness brings with it a constant vulnerability. One day, Edward’s bag—containing his tablet, eyeglasses, and vital medications—was stolen. That moment of crisis was when he reached out to Phil once again, and their bond grew even stronger.

Today, Edward splits his time between staying with Phil at his mother’s house and utilizing the Warming Center and The Landing MN.

Healing Takes Time

Edward has faced significant challenges—not just with housing, but with trust. Years of mistreatment by landlords, both in Rochester and Boston, left him emotionally drained and wary of entering another rental agreement. He’s spent time and money taking landlords to court, and the trauma from those experiences still lingers.

When asked what might change his mind about finding permanent housing, his answer is honest: “Maybe just time.” With healing and systemic change, he hopes that one day he’ll be ready.

Finding Community at The Landing MN

Despite these hardships, Edward speaks with warmth about the relationships he’s built at The Landing MN. It’s where he’s found a sense of community and support.

He lights up when talking about the meals provided by our kitchen manager, Robbie. Hot meals are served Monday through Friday—and if there’s enough, Edward gladly goes back for seconds. He appreciates the clean bathrooms, the welcoming environment, and most of all, the kindness of the staff. Renae, in particular, has made a lasting impact: “She asks how I’m doing and actually listens,” Edward says. “That means everything.”

The on-site medical clinic has also been life-changing. After his medication for anxiety was stolen, Edward was able to get a new prescription within a day thanks to Dr. Casey and our clinic’s accessibility. Without that, he says, things could have spiraled quickly.

The Need for More Support

When asked what more could be done to support individuals experiencing homelessness, Edward was quick to point out the need for storage solutions. Carrying all of one’s belongings can be both physically exhausting and socially stigmatizing—especially when trying to attend a job interview or navigate public spaces. Even though The Landing MN did add storage for clients a few years back, it is not enough. Each client can have one bin, safely stored in the basement, but many people have more belongings than can fit into one bin. Secure storage, Edward believes, would be a powerful step toward restoring dignity and reducing barriers.

A Journey of Faith and Self-Acceptance

The beginning of Edward’s experience with homelessness was filled with fear and uncertainty. Over time, he’s found peace by accepting his circumstances and showing grace to himself. His faith and spiritual community have played a vital role in that healing process. He points to the teachings of loving God and loving your neighbor as guiding principles that have kept him grounded.

“You have to work at positive thinking,” he says. “It’s not always easy, but it helps you through.”

Looking Ahead

Edward is now employed part-time and continues to lean on the support of The Landing MN and the warming center. He and Phil are still together, navigating the complexities of a relationship where one partner is housed and the other is not—a reminder that homelessness affects all areas of life, even love.

His hope for others is simple but powerful: “Be understanding. Everyone has a story. Everyone is a person.”

At The Landing MN, we are committed to listening to those stories, honoring their humanity, and working to break down the barriers and stigmas.